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Uncomfortable conversations
This morning I read an email by Clark Kegley ( clark@clarkkegley.com ). It was entitled "10 things I wish I knew a decade ago." Somehow I...
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Feb 23, 20252 min read


When your body tells you no
Like so many of us, I'm busy. Busy, busy, busy. I flit from work to hobbies to social occasions and home, from connection to connection,...
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Jan 28, 20255 min read


Cleaning out my internal cupboards
“We writers,” he’d said, “employ a process of exploration; we dive into the depths of our psyches, we submerge ourselves, going deeper and d
nicholamthompson
Sep 1, 20245 min read


Allowing others to become the hero in their own lives
The hero’s journey is the pathway to self-respect and self-belief.
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Jun 18, 20245 min read


Creativity and our relationship to it
Over Christmas I travelled to New Zealand to visit friends and family. Whilst I was there I had the opportunity to meet two French HelpX...
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Mar 7, 20245 min read


The covenants we make
Dinner table conversations from my childhood were informative affairs. They often took on a very specific flavour. Why? Because my...
nicholamthompson
Dec 16, 20234 min read


Reverse culture shock
The beginning of October saw three friends and I hop on a plane to Bali. We bunked down at a little motel near the airport overnight and...
nicholamthompson
Nov 12, 20234 min read


Take that leap
My friend has just opened a store in the Dandenong ranges and I have been there with her through almost every step of the process. She...
nicholamthompson
Sep 11, 20234 min read


The privilege of an overview
Recently I returned to my homeland, New Zealand, for a friend's milestone birthday. I had the most wonderful time, both with her and her...
nicholamthompson
Sep 5, 20234 min read


Embracing failure
As a child and young person, I had the immense good fortune to be successful. No matter what I put my mind to, I seemed to be able to...
nicholamthompson
Jul 25, 20236 min read


Surviving death
Recently, I seem to have been surrounded by death or the threat of it. A couple of friends' beloved dogs have died, one beautiful woman I...
nicholamthompson
Jul 5, 20237 min read


Disobedience, civil and social
I loved going back to uni as a single mother in my thirties. I had always been a bit of a researcher and explorer and to place all lived...
nicholamthompson
Jun 12, 20235 min read


Love letters to our future selves
I hate to admit it, but recently I've had a struggle around giving up smoking. I knew it was bad for me. My 'daughter of a redhead' genes...
nicholamthompson
May 15, 20233 min read


The stories we make up
I was sharing ideas from my last blog with a group of friends last weekend. They were in agreement about how little we know of other's...
nicholamthompson
May 8, 20233 min read


We don't know each other's stories
The thing I love most about being a writer is the weaving and crafting of stories. I get to create currents, flickering with images....
nicholamthompson
Apr 19, 20233 min read


Choosing to examine myself
I'm a very lucky sibling. I have three wonderful little sisters and an amazing little brother. (I say little with my tongue in my cheek...
nicholamthompson
Apr 6, 20234 min read


Letting out your inner teenager
When I was in my teens I loved making mixtures. I learnt to make fudge in one of my friend's kitchens on a play date, and being a sweet...
nicholamthompson
Mar 29, 20233 min read


Designing your struggles
I've been suffering from a kind of malaise recently. I stay up late, often until dawn watching Korean Netflix programs ('Tail of the...
nicholamthompson
Mar 20, 20234 min read


We're all imposters
The night before I started my first job I couldn't sleep. I was so nervous I tossed and turned in my bed. A couple of times during that...
nicholamthompson
Mar 13, 20235 min read


Checking my criticisms of cancel culture
Over the past four months I've been doing research for "First Blood, Last Blood" a set of women's stories. Holding space for such stories...
nicholamthompson
Mar 6, 20234 min read
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